Bhawna Patkar, a passionate advocate for compassionate patient care, offers her insights on That Good Night: Life and Medicine in the Eleventh Hour by Sunita Puri. Patkar, having spent years witnessing the challenges of modern healthcare, finds this book necessary reading for anyone grappling with the realities of life, death, and everything in between.
“Puri has done something profound here,” says Bhawna Patkar. “She has taken what many of us in healthcare struggle to talk about—death—and brought it to the forefront, beautifully, but without sugarcoating the truth.”
The Art of Medicine, The Dignity of Death
Sunita Puri, a palliative care physician, delivers a book that shines a light on one of the least discussed aspects of medicine: the importance of letting go. As Puri navigates between the clinical world and her personal experience, she challenges both doctors and families to rethink their approach to the end of life.
Bhawna Patkar notes, “It’s not about giving up. It’s about offering patients a dignified path, one where quality matters more than quantity. Puri captures this with clarity and grace.”
Palliative medicine, as described in That Good Night, focuses on comfort over cure when the body can no longer heal. Puri writes candidly about her own struggles as a doctor, wrestling with a culture that often prioritizes aggressive treatments and heroic interventions, even when they may not align with the patient’s wishes or best interests.
“The medical community often falls into a ‘fix-it’ mindset,” Bhawna Patkar remarks. “But as Puri shows, there’s strength in accepting what cannot be fixed. It’s something I think we need to remind ourselves of daily, both as caregivers and as people.”
Compassion at the Core
Bhawna Patkar appreciates Puri’s honesty in tackling the ethical and emotional challenges of end-of-life care. “You can feel her compassion in every page,” she says. “This isn’t just about medicine; it’s about the human spirit. We all have to confront death, but how we do it matters.”
One of the central themes that Patkar resonates with is the importance of communication. In That Good Night, Puri talks about the difficult conversations that doctors must have with patients and families. These are moments where truth and empathy collide, where lives are changed, and where acceptance becomes more powerful than treatment.
“Talking about death isn’t easy, but it’s essential,” Bhawna Patkar notes. “Puri reminds us that by avoiding these conversations, we deny people the chance to choose how they want to live their final moments. These discussions—about comfort, peace, and dignity—are where real healing begins.”
Cultural Layers
In the book, Sunita Puri delves into how her Indian heritage influences her understanding of death and the role spirituality plays in end-of-life care. Patkar, too, connects deeply with this part of the narrative.
“Death is not just a medical event. It’s a deeply personal and spiritual transition,” Bhawna Patkar reflects. “Puri’s experiences growing up in a Hindu family give the book a cultural richness. She shows how beliefs and traditions shape how people view the end of life, and that’s something we must respect as caregivers.”
This reflection on cultural diversity makes the book especially resonant. Patkar believes that it broadens the scope of palliative care and challenges the often clinical and impersonal nature of medicine. “Puri gives us permission to acknowledge that patients are people with histories, faiths, and families, not just bodies to be treated.”
The Role of the Physician: Beyond Treatment
Bhawna Patkar also touches on one of the key takeaways from That Good Night: the evolving role of the physician. “Physicians aren’t just healers. In some cases, they are guides, helping people navigate the most difficult parts of life,” she explains.
Puri’s book is a call to action, urging the medical community to embrace the idea that medicine is not only about curing but about caring. Patkar emphasizes this, saying, “It’s not failure when we can’t heal. It’s failure when we forget to care.”
Throughout the book, Puri shares stories of patients and their families, painting a vivid picture of the emotional weight that comes with end-of-life decisions. These stories serve as both heart-wrenching and heart-opening experiences for readers.
A Profound Read for All
When asked who should read this book, Bhawna Patkar doesn’t hesitate. “Everyone. Not just healthcare professionals, but anyone who has ever faced, or will face, loss.”
That Good Night is, at its core, a book about life and how we live it when faced with its inevitable end. It’s about acknowledging that death is part of the journey, not a failure or defeat.
Death is often viewed as something to fight against, Puri offers a different perspective—one that is filled with empathy, wisdom, and ultimately, peace. “It’s a book that makes you think about how you want to live,” Bhawna Patkar adds. “And that, in itself, is a gift.”
Final Thoughts
Bhawna Patkar sees That Good Night as more than just a book—it’s a guide for living. “What Puri offers here is not only an understanding of death but a profound respect for life. It’s rare to find a book that shifts your perspective on something so fundamental.”
With its blend of medical insight, personal narrative, and cultural reflection, That Good Night is a must-read. For Bhawna Patkar, it’s a reminder that compassion, communication, and respect are the most essential tools we have when it comes to facing life’s most challenging moments.
“Let’s face it,” Bhawna Patkar concludes, “this book will make you uncomfortable, but it will also make you wiser.”
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